“You must learn one thing: the world was made to be free in.

-David Whyte

Even if we never work together, I want you to take to heart this lovely line from David Whyte, “You must learn one thing: the world was made to be free in.” I believe that freedom includes your birthright to love and be loved and to experience pleasure. Please don’t settle for anything less.

Bella believes we must shake off the shame surrounding our true selves before becoming empowered, emboldened and whole.

After working with thousands of clients in the domain of sexuality, Bella realized the importance of addressing the whole. Heeding the call, it is now her mission to empower men and women in creating balanced, fulfilling lives. She coaches on intimacy, health, longevity and performance.

Wise to the inner workings of desire, Bella creates a safe, non-judgmental environment for her clients to unwind cultural conditioning, suppression and shame. In helping to identify, express, and claim their inviolate truths, Bella serves as a guiding light towards transformative sex, intimacy and love.

Based in Austin, Texas, Bella teaches out of her studio, Temple Shakti. She works both remotely and in person.

Be sure to check out her bestselling memoir! It is receiving rave reviews and is available on Amazon: Fetish Girl: A Memoir of Sex, Domination, and Motherhood 

Remember—pleasure is your birthright