“You must learn one thing: the world was made to be free in.

-David Whyte

Even if we never work together, I want you to take to heart this lovely line from David Whyte, “You must learn one thing: the world was made to be free in.” I believe that freedom includes your birthright to love and be loved and to experience pleasure. Please don’t settle for anything less.

I am here to create a safe, non-judgmental environment in which you can cast off shame, unwind cultural conditioning, and get in touch with your truest desires.

I am a sacred sexuality educator and a seditious sybarite. I bridge the gap between the sacred and the profane, and share with you the discoveries I’ve made in becoming sexually liberated. I’ve been called a cougar and a courtesan and last I checked, I’m still a cover-girl on Fetlife. I’m here to be a guide in your sexual awakening.

I teach basic to advanced sex and intimacy skills and support you in dating and relationships. I can help you communicate more effectively, connect with and better understand your partner, and experience greater self-awareness and love. I’m passionate about helping people move through fear, shame and limiting beliefs so they may embrace their sexuality and desires.

I’m a holistic sexological coach, writer and workshop facilitator. I have an extensive background in Daoist sexual alchemy, tantra, shamanism and movement practices. I trained at the Somatica Institute, known for its revolutionary sex and relationship coaching methodology. I’m also a certified Wudang qigong instructor, taught by Master Yun Xiang Tseng. I’ve been a licensed massage therapist for over eighteen years. My shamanic training came through the world-renowned Four Winds Society Light Body School.

My journey of sexual awakening will be published November 13th by She Writes Press. Fetish Girl: A Memoir of Sex, Domination, and Motherhood explores my efforts to reconcile my attraction to sexual violence with my need for intimacy and my role as a mother. It’s my spiritual journey of how I peeled away the layers of false identity in a relentless search for the true and inviolate self.

My audience is mainly heterosexual and bisexual women between the ages of 20 and 50, but I offer coaching for everybody, regardless of age, gender, or sexual identity. I consider myself a sacred sexuality practitioner because I do not detach the corporeal self from our spiritual self. I believe awesome sex happens when we connect our animal nature and our divine nature—when we make room for our darkest desires while staying connected to our hearts.

Remember—pleasure is your birthright