“You must learn one thing: the world was made to be free in.“
Even if we never work together, I want you to take to heart this lovely line from David Whyte, “You must learn one thing: the world was made to be free in.” I believe that freedom includes your birthright to love and be loved and to experience pleasure. Please don’t settle for anything less.
I am here to create a safe, non-judgmental environment in which you can cast off shame, unwind cultural conditioning, and get in touch with your truest desires.
I am a sacred sexuality educator and a sybarite. I bridge the gap between the sacred and the profane, and share with you the discoveries I’ve made in becoming sexually liberated. I’ve been called a cougar and a courtesan and last I checked, I’m still a cover-girl on Fetlife. I’m here to be a guide in your sexual awakening.
I teach basic to advanced sex and intimacy skills and support you in dating and relationships. I can help you communicate more effectively, connect with and better understand your partner, and experience greater self-awareness and love. I’m passionate about helping people move through fear, shame and limiting beliefs so they may embrace their sexuality and desires.
I’m a holistic sexological coach, writer and workshop facilitator. I have an extensive background in Daoist sexual alchemy, tantra, shamanism and movement practices. I trained at the Somatica Institute, known for its revolutionary sex and relationship coaching methodology. I’m also a certified Wudang qigong instructor, taught by Master Yun Xiang Tseng. I’ve been a licensed massage therapist for over eighteen years. My shamanic training came through the world-renowned Four Winds Society Light Body School.
My journey of sexual awakening will be published November 13th by She Writes Press. Fetish Girl: A Memoir of Sex, Domination, and Motherhood explores my efforts to reconcile my attraction to sexual violence with my need for intimacy and my role as a mother. It’s my spiritual journey of how I peeled away the layers of false identity in a relentless search for the true and inviolate self.
My audience is mainly heterosexual and bisexual women between the ages of 20 and 50, but I offer coaching for everybody, regardless of age, gender, or sexual identity. I consider myself a sacred sexuality practitioner because I do not detach the corporeal self from our spiritual self. I believe awesome sex happens when we connect our animal nature and our divine nature—when we make room for our darkest desires while staying connected to our hearts.