5 Things I wished someone told me before I got married
Deciding to share your life with another is a beautiful thing. Doing so wisely and consciously could save you a ton of heartache in the future. Here’s a few things I wish someone had told me. 1. To everything, there is a season. A doctor once told me, "Enjoy it...
Be her oral sex god (or goddess): Part I
Without further ado, it’s time to talk Pussy Worship. Some women feel absolutely ambivalent about oral sex, “It’s not my favorite but I know he likes doing it” Do you feel similar? Pussy Worship is different. And I’m going to show you how. So that you can give her...
Coming Out Kinky: Advice from Your Friendly International Ex-Dominatrix:
I know there are a lot of tips out there to improve your sex life, but this time, I’m offering a rare perspective based on my experience as an internationally-sought after Dominatrix. But let me be clear, spicing up your sex life requires trust and intimacy, a true...
Qi 101: Expand your understanding of life force energy
Ever sensed you were being watched and turned to find someone staring at you? Ever walked into a room that felt dense and heavy only to notice a couple in an obvious argument in the corner? Clairsentience is what they call it; the ability to feel energy. And whether...
Dye no more: Why I embrace my gorgeously gray hair
Have you sprouted a few gray hairs since being on lock-down? Read why I stopped dyeing my hair in 2019. As a young woman, I balked at most traditional femininity rituals. I wasn't one to mimic the habits of my mother. But I dutifully followed one tradition passed down...
Tibetan Meditation For Relief From Suffering
To sit with suffering may be against our natural impulse. When witnessing the pain of others, we often shift our eyes away. Because it reminds us of our own fear. Our own anger. Vulnerability. Confusion. Tonglen, a traditional Buddhist practice helps us respond with...
BELLA’S GUIDE TO LUXURY BREAST MASSAGE
Hello beautiful! I'm publishing this post as an offering to women experiencing stress. We all know anxiety takes a tremendous toll on the system. This practice is designed to help you de-stress and bring your body back into balance. Be well. Be smart. Stay calm and...
The Secrets to Loving your Man (and the Love Potion No One Talks About).
One of my relationship mantras is, “How can I love you better?” It’s something I ask myself and my partner. Long-term relationships are a dance; they require us to do our personal work and endure the hurricanes and tornadoes that we’d most likely detour in dating. In...
Sex Work, Living in Two Worlds
For most of my adult life I’ve lived a double life and straddled two worlds. In fact, I lived like this for so long I didn’t realize I was doing it anymore. It became my norm. As a young mother I felt like I had no choice. There are no coming out stories for sex...
Rising from the Crucible of Infidelity
Infidelity had throttled Patricia and Devon’s world. Devon stared at me with desperate wide eyes. Patricia sat as rigid as the Sphinx, a jagged wall of pain and betrayal separating them. I flashed back 20 years, to when I sat crumpled on a therapist’s couch in much of...
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